And cons of dating older men
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I have guy friends my age who are like this, too, but they’re my mature guy friends. Anyone who has dated someone older have pros or cons to add? My follower asked me “I met a man who is 15 years older than me. On the other hand, if you’re a young guy who’s mature, going after an older woman would be ideal for you, mentally and emotionally. If you’re young and free-spirited, you don’t want a stick-in-the-mud rolling their eyes at the walrus teeth you made out of straws at dinner.
have ranged from being unfazed to naming other couples they know with big age differences (I guess to reassure themselves? My mom is only two years older than him” and “He could biologically be your father” (thanks for that imagery…). After going on dates with a barrage of indecisive and ambivalent guys (and being in a relationship with one for two years), this was incredibly refreshing (see #9: If you're the one asking, then you should be the one planning the date). He’s not in the “finding himself” stage, living with mom and unable to decide on a career path.
You might not think five or six years in the difference would affect his energy levels that much, but it actually does.
At times you'll literally feel like your on speed compared to him.
I agree it would be weird to date someone who is close to my parents’ age or who has kids close to my age, but neither Cole nor my parents were candidates for 16 & Pregnant. Here and there Cole says something like “Have you heard of the movie When Harry Met Sally? Every so often you’ll hear about someone passing away in their 40’s or early 50’s. Kids were definitely brought up, but in the hypothetical, years-from-now sense. He’s past being the “aspiring” musician who is still waiting tables and hasn’t done a paid gig in two years.
It can be difficult to not become defensive at the stage when I’m excited about a new relationship. ” (yes—of course) or “Doesn’t this song sound like an 80’s song? This just wouldn’t be an issue with someone who wasn’t enrolling in college as I was entering pre-school. While I always thought it was a tragically early passing, it now terrifies me. If the relationship had lasted into marriage, we probably would have waited a few years before starting a family. It’s easier to mold plans with someone who hasn’t had as many experiences and is therefore more open to new ones. I’m already inexperienced in the physical arena for someone my age. A lot of 20-somethings (and 30-somethings) don’t want to settle into a long-term relationship because they always have a gnawing feeling that there’s someone better around the corner. Naturally, they can have a really different perspective on things because of the sheer number of years they’ve been alive.
Often enough you're opinion is dismissed simply because you're younger and pre assume we're more naive, and that's all it is, and it's This can be a good thing if the guy isn't a know-it-all, it's pretty cool to have this guy tell you about all the craic he's had over the past few years.
It kind of makes you think if he could go through that amount of close to death experiences than you'll be just fine.
They're a lot of pros and cons to dating an older guy, they have smouldering grey hairs among they're normal hair, they have so many stories to tell and lessons they've learned, but they can also be really boring and misunderstanding.
They're way more likely to open doors, pull out your chair and ask you how your day was, fact.
If an older man or woman is trying to buy your love, it’s unlikely that there will be any real love in the relationship.
Money can be used as power, keeping you dependent and on a short leash. It completely depends on who you are and who this older man or woman is.
Someone who is older than you can be your teacher in a number of ways.