Dating for the mentaly ill

09-Feb-2020 14:42 by 2 Comments

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She is hateful and self-pitying, withdrawn, listless, angry.She will try her best to hurt you, and lash out until she does.

She will smother you long after you have begun to loathe each other and refuse to let you go.I belong in the Victorian age, when I could have carried out an epistolary courtship with a friend of my brother's, stationed abroad, and kept my secrets until we wed.It feels dishonest not to mention certain things to someone you’re trying to seduce, in the way I would feel dishonest not mentioning that I had a child or was missing a nose.I have seen dating websites for the mentally ill, and although I'm sure there is blessed relief in a partner who knows what you're going through from the get-go, I don’t think matching us up is a good idea.One of you needs to be able to get out of bed every morning and persuade the other to do the same. On the other hand, the tangle of depression, anxiety, OCD, and borderline personality disorder in my head came fairly close to talking me into a swan dive off of a fifth-floor Paris balcony last week.

(If you’ve never suffered from depression, it might sound nonsensical that I would do this at my most self-confident.

Therapists are trained not to tell you exactly what to do, no matter how much I ask.

I'm sure that self-help books are very helpful for some people, but I never make it much past the table of contents.

I'm 36, single, live in Brooklyn, and work in publishing.

I love gloomy Victorian novels, obscure Korean horror films, Premier League soccer, and knitting.

Possibly the worst effect my illness has on relationships is my inability to let go of something that is clearly not working. Many people will not be interested in dealing with my illogical side, and it’s not their fault or mine. In , Martin Amis wrote: “Have you ever stayed in a place where you wanted someone who didn't want you?

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