Dating women who bounce checks
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My brother’s gotten caught up in the Red Pill Philosophy.It’s a mindset that shows up a lot in the nether regions of the internet that’s basically a mix of PUA and Men Going Their Own Way, but with a lot more violent misogyny.
One of the reasons why I write about feminist issues or bad behavior within the geek community is because, frankly, getting better at dating is a holistic system.
Many people recognize that this mindset is very dangerous, but all criticism from women and feminist men only makes fun of their more extreme points rather than offering an alternative to men and boys that are frustrated.
I ask because I want something to offer men my age and younger when they say acting “alpha” is their only way to get the relationship they want. My parents have a feminist marriage, since my mother is the breadwinner, however my parents are not happy together. Part of this is a fundamental lack of compatibility (they didn’t want to get married but did because of unexpected pregnancy), but it is also because our father allows my mother abuse and manipulate him.
My brother’s girlfriend was a shy, socially awkward girl.
She didn’t want to have sex, partly because of her youth and and insecurity, and partly because he was pushing for it too hard.
My brother, who also had a long time crush on a female friend that was not reciprocated, “took the red pill” two years ago.
He eventually got a girlfriend (not his crush) which “proved” red pill worked.To “break” her he would ignore and insult her in public, spread rumors about her, and use the more coercive PUA tactics.One of the popular themes in red pill is the idea that men who want sex should “just go for it”.This is different from sexually escalating: the idea is that women secretly want a man to force them to have sex (because rape fantasies, evo psych, it demonstrates “alphaness”, other bullshit).Eventually my brother decided to “just go for it” with his girlfriend at a party.My father has many positive traits: he is intelligent, hardworking, and caring, but he is socially awkward does not stand up for himself.