Rules to dating my sister
Rules to dating my sister
I have one sister and when she divorced her first husband, I wanted to kick that cad right in the keister for hurting my sister the way he did. Who knows what happened between Matt and Susan but it probably wasn’t good given that they’re not still together. If you care about your sister and her feelings, you’ll cast your net in another direction.
Needless to say, I felt like I was walking on air when I left the bar. Listen, when you get married, make sure your sister is your maid of honor and recruit her to throw your first baby shower. In case you don’t know, that is SARCASM spelled out with a highlighter, in all caps with a red neon arrow pointing at it because apparently your common sense gauge is broken. IT WILL CRUSH YOUR SISTER: Yes, Matt and Susan are no longer seeing one another but at one time, they had a deep connection and were planning on sharing their lives together.Be respectful and curious to her family, that earns you many brownie points with her and the rest of the family.A lot of girls are insecure about their looks, remind her how beautiful she is to you.Then ask her if she’d be your birthing buddy when you push out all 2.5 kids that you and Matt will have as part of your perfect, happy little family. That train jumped the tracks and a left trail of bloody carnage in its wake.A year later, I’m sure there’s a part of Susan that still cares for Matt; in fact, she may still be trying to get over him.It felt great because it was like seeing an old friend.
When it was time to leave, Matt gave me a kiss on the cheek and I felt a spark, a connection with him.
If you really respect her boundaries then respect that she said no. Life can be hard, and there are moments when life can be just too much.
One of the most important things in a relationship is being comfortable with another and being able to laugh with another. Be there for her no matter what time it is, wipe away her tears and hold her.
WHAT’S GOING ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SISTER? Is this your chance to have some crazy power over her? Because if you start dating her ex you will do just that. And speaking of motives and underlying issues, what is up with Matt?
I’m not a psychologist as I have said before but the fact that you would even consider this makes me wonder about the underlying issues between you and Susan. She might even find out that you had a crush on Matt all along. Why is HE doing this and what makes him think this is okay? RUN FAR, FUN FAST: This is real life, not This is real emotion with real people involved.
That will mean the most to her, and she will always be there for you.